Who is my judge?

Me.

I am my biggest critic. But why do I criticize myself?

Well this is what I need to figure out.

It is not fair for me to say others judge me.

I feel like I am being judged, by the standards I think are in place for me. I developed these standards from events in my life, which have helped define them.

I need to determine what these events are and why I placed these standards on myself.